#20FactsAboutMe
There was a trending topic on twitter today called #20FactsAboutMe, and I decided to indulge myself. Afterwards, I realized how insightful, and helpful, it was with my journey to learning more about myself. Check it out!
I have some old classmates on Facebook that won’t accept my friend request because they think I’m not good enough to ‘know’. At first my feelings were hurt, but then I realized that they are the ones missing out on a really cool person just because I don’t meet a set of shallow standards. On my current journey of self acceptance and love, I became strong enough to say ‘screw them’ and quickly moved on with my life. How liberating!
#2. I am a single African-American female adult with no husband or children and a college education.
It’s so crazy how our minds can play tricks on us (also the media). For the longest time I would think about this ‘fact’ and feel ashamed because I don’t have a husband or child to speak of and I’m not getting younger. But this weekend I got a pleasant surprise when my mother used me as an example for my oldest niece. She and my mother were watching my youngest nephew this weekend and my mother said, ‘You see how much work having a baby is’. She continued, ‘You need to be like your Aunt Dallas and go to school, get a job, enjoy yourself with your friends and live your life.’ I was flattered when she told me but old man doubt tried to sneak back in. But I was quickly reminded of what a blessed single person I am once I held my nephew and couldn’t get him to stop crying until I walked every square inch of my parents house. ENJOY your life before you have more responsibilities!
#3. I love God - my relationship with Him is constantly on my mind.
There’s not much to explain here. It says it all. I’m constantly talking to God ALL DAY LONG. I love how our relationship grows every moment. I am FAAARRRRRRRR from perfect, but I try my best to heed His instructions. I am God’s and His alone.
#4. I love all kinds of men, it doesn't matter the nationality, they just have to be taller than me.
I am more concerned about a man’s character than his nationality. His character will determine how he handles everything in his life. That’s why I don’t jump for men with money. A man can have ALL the money in the world, but if he doesn’t know how to save or invest, he won’t have any at all.
#5. I am 5' 10'' and 3/4
No matter what, I will always be a big girl! lol!
#6. I love pets, I've just been too busy to have one
I’m afraid I will come home one day and my pet would be dead because I forgot to feed them during my busy schedule. Thank goodness I don’t have any kids, lol!
#7. I LOVE to sing! It's like breathing to me.
During college I had a severe acid reflux incident after eating late night pizza. I couldn’t sing for a few days after that. That was the longest days of my life!
#8. I'm allergic to shellfish.
This is a sad fact because my mother’s side of the family is creole. Most major holidays are marked with a crawfish boil. I can’t stand staring at people while they happily stuff their faces.
#9. I love guys who are nerds with a bit of swag. Guys that like math or science is AWESOME!
Confident Nerds Rule!
#10. I love movies - period!
Every Friday morning, before 12, you can find me at the movies catching the new releases. I love this time because it’s cheap and there’s not many people in there, so I can enjoy the movie in peace. Ironically, I’m usually the loudest one laughing.
#11. I love to cook!
I’ve been cooking ever since I could reach the stove. I may not have a lot memorized, but if you give me a recipe I can make it my own.
#12. I LOVE chocolate! It is the elixir of life.
If someone filled a pool full of chocolate, I would dive into it and not come out until I’ve sucked it dry. You’d probably need to call an ambulance because I’d definitely be in a diabetic coma.
#13. I love dark skin. It is absolutely beautiful.
Dark skin is SO beautiful. You can see the sun shine through it even in a dim lit room. And it’s deep smooth consistency reminds of - you guested it - CHOCOLATE!
#14. I am celibate - and loving it!
You’d be surprised how free you feel when you don’t have the weight of a soul-tie or bad decisions holding you down. You are free to be yourself and conquer the world. You should try it.
#15. I am writing a book and going to school to become a teacher.
I left a job I truly hated last year and embarked on a journey of changing my life into what I want it to be. I love relating to our youth and expanding their horizons. I also love to write. This journey is challenging, but I know the fruits of my labor will be worth it.
#16. I graduated from High School at 17 and from College at 20.
Even though that was a great feat I wouldn’t recommend anyone do it. I was stressed out from constantly working and school. I didn’t get to get out as much. I also committed to a degree that I am not using due to stress. If it takes you 5 -6 years to determine what you REALLY want to do - DO IT!
#17. Loyalty is a big thing to me.
If you are not loyal and you don’t stand by your word - KEEP MOVING! No Pass Go! Go straight to jail. If you can’t be true to anything - what is the point.
#18. I can't stand habitual liars. Liars period, really!!!
See #17
#19. I hate bugs!
I am by ALL MEANS a girly girl (except for movies). I don’t like to be outside for long. Back then I would’ve been a ‘House Negro’ because me and outdoors don’t mix. Not just because I don’t like the sun, or to sweat, but because I can’t stand bugs. I don’t like the way they look, bite, or sound. Everything about them turns me off. Ugh!
#20. Being a black girl with curls and freckles is a rare-ity that I LOVE! Freckles are beautiful - and I am TOO!
Why don’t you go ahead and post #20FactsAbout yourself. Hit me up at @fabulusmsdallas !!! You’d be surprised what you learn about yourself...
Look for my book, Until You Love You, No One Else Will, coming soon!
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