Here’s an exert from my upcoming book, Until You Love You, No One Else Will:
We have all seen this WAY too many times. You and your girlfriends are on a high. You ladies have your stuff to together, your self-esteem is soaring, you’ve made a pact to be celibate, you have been traveling and moving about in life. Then all of a sudden Ole Boy Slick come out of nowhere like a Navy Seal on a covert mission of taking one of your girls down. You try to warn her but you can tell that she is slowly slipping away! He starts to weave his web of wining and dining. Movies on cold nights with popcorn and Moscato Wine! Small little gifts here and there. He does it all! For a minute her will was strong but it has now crumbled like the walls of Jericho. She allows him to scale the walls and at first all is well. Little does she know the Trojan Horse that sits inside her gates is about to wage a war from the depths of Hell. Yet, she is on clouds 9, 10 and 11! The only thing you can do is sit and watch because all the pleading you’re doing is making you look more and more like the enemy. So, you sit back and watch this once beautiful flower take on weeds that slowly suck the life out of her. Your friend is now unrecognizable.
She has turned into a fiend. She’s always looking for that next hit while forsaking the promises she once had for the emptiness of a thief who has now come and gone. To her he may look as though he is still there but deep down she knows it’s a facade. They are both now empty shells. His outside resemblance maintains the guy that’s her ‘man’ but on the inside he is none existent. She holds up as the girl that’s got a man at home but at home she is alone with a stranger. She continues to pour everything into him hoping for reciprocity. She stands empty handed and depleted. A parched soul waiting for those moments when he shows just enough interest for her to open those gates again. He caudles her hopes that what she got can bring the relationship back to life. Only to leave her feeling even more empty once he turns cold again.
This, my friends, is one of the many processes of dickmatization, and this is what a dickmatized woman looks like. Don’t be fooled by those who have a cute shape, great clothes, a ‘husband’, money, purses, jewels, and cars. These are the many things used to disguise the gaping hole in their soul. She hides the fact that she has low self-esteem. She feels like she isn’t worthy of a wonderful relationship. The attention, or ‘hate’, she gets from other females for her ‘status’ is a band-aide as well.
They may turn their noses up at you citing the fact they have a man but, boy oh boy, are they lonely. Some women can’t handle being alone so they put up with whatever. Some stay because they can’t afford to live on their own. Some stay for the sake of the children. Some stay because of all the time they’ve invested. This is why we feel like we’ve run over after we come to the realization the man played his role well and walked away with the prize. How stupid we feel when we think of all the time that we let slip away, all the friends we forsook, all the ways we degraded ourselves, and how could we not love ourselves enough.
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We have all seen this WAY too many times. You and your girlfriends are on a high. You ladies have your stuff to together, your self-esteem is soaring, you’ve made a pact to be celibate, you have been traveling and moving about in life. Then all of a sudden Ole Boy Slick come out of nowhere like a Navy Seal on a covert mission of taking one of your girls down. You try to warn her but you can tell that she is slowly slipping away! He starts to weave his web of wining and dining. Movies on cold nights with popcorn and Moscato Wine! Small little gifts here and there. He does it all! For a minute her will was strong but it has now crumbled like the walls of Jericho. She allows him to scale the walls and at first all is well. Little does she know the Trojan Horse that sits inside her gates is about to wage a war from the depths of Hell. Yet, she is on clouds 9, 10 and 11! The only thing you can do is sit and watch because all the pleading you’re doing is making you look more and more like the enemy. So, you sit back and watch this once beautiful flower take on weeds that slowly suck the life out of her. Your friend is now unrecognizable. She has turned into a fiend. She’s always looking for that next hit while forsaking the promises she once had for the emptiness of a thief who has now come and gone. To her he may look as though he is still there but deep down she knows it’s a facade. They are both now empty shells. His outside resemblance maintains the guy that’s her ‘man’ but on the inside he is none existent. She holds up as the girl that’s got a man at home but at home she is alone with a stranger. She continues to pour everything into him hoping for reciprocity. She stands empty handed and depleted. A parched soul waiting for those moments when he shows just enough interest for her to open those gates again. He caudles her hopes that what she got can bring the relationship back to life. Only to leave her feeling even more empty once he turns cold again.
This, my friends, is one of the many processes of dickmatization, and this is what a dickmatized woman looks like. Don’t be fooled by those who have a cute shape, great clothes, a ‘husband’, money, purses, jewels, and cars. These are the many things used to disguise the gaping hole in their soul. She hides the fact that she has low self-esteem. She feels like she isn’t worthy of a wonderful relationship. The attention, or ‘hate’, she gets from other females for her ‘status’ is a band-aide as well.
They may turn their noses up at you citing the fact they have a man but, boy oh boy, are they lonely. Some women can’t handle being alone so they put up with whatever. Some stay because they can’t afford to live on their own. Some stay for the sake of the children. Some stay because of all the time they’ve invested. This is why we feel like we’ve run over after we come to the realization the man played his role well and walked away with the prize. How stupid we feel when we think of all the time that we let slip away, all the friends we forsook, all the ways we degraded ourselves, and how could we not love ourselves enough.
Come follow me on Twitter @fabulusmsdallas... Toodles!!!!
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