DATE NIGHT FRIDAY WITH MS.306

                                                           Make up or Break up w/ Ms.306

                                         This is PART I of The Break up called “Second Chance”

This is for my ladies and my gentleman. When do you say “I’m tired of this crap and I’m out” and truly let another person go or “Do you stick it out?” That's the ultimate questions. I been reading a lot lately and all I keep seeing is people trying to give there opinion on when to stay and when to call it quits. In all honesty you really don’t need me or anyone else to listen to your life story about your relationship and tell you what you already know in your heart. Your mind may have you remember all the good times your shared. The little pet names you would call each other and how good that person smelled or cooked. ALL of that is because in reality no one wants to talk about the bad times. How he/she called you names, cussed you out in front of other people you may or may not know, or how they cheated on you and then tried to make it seem like it was your fault. Like for instance her skirt just happens to fly over her head while she was tying her shoe and that’s why she cheated…OK???...or it’s your fault at the time his pants where around his ankles and he just happen to magically fall in some…REALLY?? (I mean at the end of day they may be freak accidents but they do happen from time to time RIGHT??...UMMMM WRONG...lol…So anyway let’s get to the point of this topic. When it comes to being in a relationship hitting a rough patch do you repair it or find someone else? Honestly depending on the severity of situation I say stick it out. No I don’t condone violence so if you’re the type that like to haul off and just slap the taste out of a person’s mouth just because I will tell you to go seek help and the other person run like your underwear are on fire because that situation will get worse before it gets better. Of course you have a flip side and these are the couples that have arguments like “You spend too much money or you’re not responsible”. “I’m tired of you hanging with your friends and never spending time with me” and etc. Almost any situation with time and communication I say can at least be worth another chance. So I’m going to give you some signs today on when to give that man or that

woman one more try.

Ms. 306 Make up with your Booboo bear Signs:


1) DON’T CALL THEM- I know you’re looking at this thinking” UMMM what do you mean Ms. 306 don’t call them I don’t want him/her to think I don’t care”….This rule ONLY applies to the person that did the dumping… Meaning if you let them go because they did you wrong don’t you pick up that phone. I don’t care if it kills you let that man or woman chase you. You have done your job by being a good spouse now let them win your heart back by chasing you for a change. Trust if you call begging for yah to start over. You will be the one whining to your friends later about how bad they are still treating you. If there was something there trust even if it’s a week, three weeks, month, or over year and etc. they will eventually come back. Now no one said you will still be single and waiting on them, but trust they will be back because they had time to think of how they treated you and want to make it right even if that means only being your friend.

2) ACTIONS- This sign is the most important because people can always talk that good stuff but when it’s time to produce never have nothing to bring to the table. WRONG ANSWER- If you really want a person to take you serious then let them know with your actions. Show them that you have changed for the better. If it’s the other way around show them you’re not the person they use to know and that you’re a stronger person now. Meaning if you started off a DOOR MAT omg pick yourself up and grow a pair this goes for men and women. People can only treat you how you allow them too.REMEMBER THAT!!!

3) LEARN TO BE FRIENDS AGAIN- Before the words “I HATE YOU JODIE”…my part From Baby boy…lol…Trust Yvette and Jodie were friends first. To get to ANY POINT where you’re telling
somebody you hate them somewhere down the line yah were friends first. If you want your lady or your man back. Show them you’re the person they can count on. Now don’t get it twisted there is a huge difference from being a friend and being in the friend zone. Now if you want to make it work being in the friend zone ONLY is not a good look. That means if you want more do not play games by flaunting other people in your ex’s face. Trust it will back fire you think you just scored a touchdown because they are jealous and really what you scored was the person your with possibly getting an eye jammy. You being devastated because now your ex don’t want you and they will figure if your with the other person you moved on. The goal is to show them that they are all you need and all you want. Without being creepy about it. Meaning if your ex needs something may it be advice or changing a flat tire do what you can and let it go. You can text “Hey just thinking of you”…that’s it don’t go in whining and crying about why they need you in their life once again it will BACK FIRE and come off as a turn off and you might as well keep it moving at that point.

4) DATE- Ha people always figure once they hit that rough patch there is nowhere but down UMMM not true. Remember how you got him or her in the first place. By actually dating. Don’t matter where yah met. Trust and believe for you to have been cheesing about Tyrone at some point in your life when things were good he took you out on some type of date first. So take them out for drinks and dinner at the first place you went on your first date. If you want to make it a tad bit romantic then cook them dinner by making their favorite dish. Main thing is to remember how you guys got started in the first place. By all means no talk about anything bad try to save that for another day like at home where other people are not around or if you are home for another day period………LIKEI SAY NEVER GET SO DAMN COMFORTABLE THAT YOU FORGET HOW YOU GOT THAT PERSON IN THE FIRST PLACE.

5) COMMUNICATION- like I said in my last blog this probably should have been my first sign but “oh well”…lol...Let us continue. Communication is key in any relationship good or bad. Talk about everything don’t leave one stone unturned. Tell them exactly how you feel and then LISTEN for once in your life. We as adults always want everybody to see things our way, but we never want to listen to what really is the problem. For once forget about you if you’re the person that did wrong then listen to what your partner is telling you. So if you’re the person that is saying “Ok baby we can try one more time”…then please I can’t stress enough truly forgive that person.

 

6) FORGIVENESS- I’m telling you this will be the HARDEST PILL TO SWALLOW especially if the reason you broke up is because your spouse cheated. If you love that person ENOUGH then once you forgive them LET IT GO. No one said FORGET I said LET IT GO. There Is nothing worse than a person telling you I forgive you and EVERY TIME SOMETHING IS NOT RIGHT THEY BRING UP THE OTHER PERSON….”So the reason you put mayo on my sandwich instead of mustard like I said is because THAT DUDE YOU WERE SLEEPING WITH LIKE IT HUH?”…..lol…this is so wrong if you can’t forgive and really let it go then move on.

Ms.306…BONUS….BE HONEST

Not just with yourself but also with your partner. Take the time to analyze is this person worth given a second chance to and if the answer is yes then I say go for it!!!! This is Date Night Friday with your girl Ms. 306 if I missed anything feel free to make comments below thanks guys and tune in next week with PART II of the Break up called “LET IT GO”

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